HOW TO WRITE A WEDDING TOAST
How To Write A Wedding Toast
Giving a toast to the happy life of a new couple at their wedding reception is a big deal. For most people, writing is the hardest part. You find yourself wondering where to start and what to say.
If you're a best man or a maid of honor and you've been asked to give a toast, congratulations. It means the couple really values you, and with this, you can give a speech that will make them proud. Check out the following tips to learn how to write a wedding toast that is unique and unforgettable.
· Tip 1: Start with A Story
Starting your toast with a story is much better than going the long route of making introductions. Most people already know who you are. A story will catch their attention and keep them spellbound, which is an excellent start to your speech.
The story you tell should be something lovely that happened in relation to the couple. That way, you'll come across as natural when remembering it and won't have to rehearse too much. Please make sure that the story you choose to share paints the couple in a great light.
· Tip 2: Share What You Love About the Couple
While writing the wedding toast, think of what you love about the couple. What characteristics do they have that make you proud to know them? Include some of these as key points in your speech.
Once you've put this down, it should be a lot easier to write down the rest of the toast. There are some methods people usually follow when discussing the best qualities of the couple. The best man adds a lot more about the groom than the bride since he is closer to the groom. The maid of honor also does the same for the bride.
You should also do your best to mention things that are real and genuine. Remember that you are in a room full of people, most of whom know the couple. You'll just end up looking fake if you say things that are known not to be true.
· Tip 3 Be Your Best Self
Everyone has something about them that people love. Use this in your wedding toast and be yourself. Are you naturally funny? Then feel free to add a joke or two to your speech. Laughter at a wedding reception is always good.
If comedy isn't your forte, then there is no need to force it. Go for something else you're great at. It could even be romance. The wedding toast will come out great as long as you keep it natural and straightforward.
· Tip 4: Add Some More Stories
Now it's time to share those lovely memories you've had with the couple. For each story you have, think of a metaphor that works. You don't even have to write it all down, as delivering it naturally will make it more interesting.
Use these stories to strengthen the points in your speech and back them up with quotes if you can. In the unlikely event that you don't have any personal stories with the couple, ask other people. These could be their friends, parents, or siblings. Someone will have something beautiful that you can use.
· Tip 5 Bring It All Together
Now that you have the points and stories ready, it's time to bring it all together. A great way to do this is by explaining why the qualities you've shared make the couple perfect for each other. Talk about how their good hearts have brought them this far and will take them even further. When wrapping things up like this, telling guests why the couple is so great together is the best choice.
· Tip 6 Your Thanks and Toast
At this point, you're at the end and have given a great wedding speech. It's time to toast to the bride and groom and wish them the best. First, thank them for a lovely celebration and then give your toast to a happy and long life together. Just like that, you're done!
· In Conclusion
Writing a fantastic best mans toast or maid of honor toast is easy to do. Just make sure to follow the above tips and be true to yourself. The resulting toast will be something the couple will always be grateful to you for. Best of luck!
PS: You can also apply these principles when writing a grooms toast, brides toast, or father of the bride's toast. They'll also work for these as the basic requirements and delivery are the same.
