It's okay for the bride and groom to take time for themselves on their wedding day to grieve and remember their loved one.

In the world of weddings, there are moments that can be bittersweet. Many brides and grooms will experience the absence of a beloved family member or close friend on their special day. It's not uncommon for a bride to walk down the aisle without her father by her side, or for a groom to miss the last-minute advice from his father while getting ready. These are the moments that remind us of the importance of those we hold dear.

It's important to acknowledge and honor the emotions that come with this loss. It's okay for the bride and groom to take time for themselves on their wedding day to grieve and remember their loved one. It's natural to feel a sense of sadness and longing, even amidst the joyous celebration.


There are many ways couples can incorporate the memory of their loved ones into their wedding day. Some choose to have a table of photos honoring those who are no longer with them. Others reserve seats at the ceremony adorned with a rose or a significant item.


For brides, walking down the aisle with photo charms hanging from their bouquets can be a beautiful tribute. Grooms may choose to have names embroidered on their pocket squares. Each couple can find their own unique way to honor and include those special to them who have passed.


Ultimately, it's up to the bride and groom to decide how they want to incorporate the memory of their loved ones into their wedding day. There's no right or wrong way to do it. The most important thing is that they feel a sense of connection and love, both for each other and for those who are no longer physically present.

On this day, it's okay to celebrate their love as well. Their love is the reason they feel the pain of the absence, and it's also the reason they are getting married. Love is what brings us the most beautiful things in life, and we all recognize and honor that. So, let the tears flow if needed, but also let the love shine through and be celebrated.

Rob CharlesComment