I got a DM on April 20th that stopped me mid-scroll.
It was Max. His girlfriend Kiersten had no idea what was coming, the proposal was six days away, and the photographer he’d booked just had a family emergency. He needed someone. Fast.
He was upfront with me — I wasn’t his first call. And honestly? I appreciated that. No games, just a guy trying to do right by the woman he loves, scrambling to put the pieces back together in less than a week.
I didn’t even hesitate. I told him I was in.
The Plan Comes Together
Max already had everything mapped out. He’d been to Sandy Hook before, walked the beach, found the spot — this beautiful curve of shoreline where the bay wraps around the sand and the dunes frame everything perfectly. Honestly, his location scouting was better than most clients I work with who have months to plan.
We kept the cue simple. When they got to the beach, Max was going to suggest skipping rocks on the water. That was my signal. Rocks → get down on one knee. Easy enough — as long as I was invisible enough to pull it off.
Showing Up Early (Always Show Up Early)
I got to Sandy Hook a full hour before them.
That extra time wasn’t just about finding a spot to stand. It was about understanding the light, reading the space, and figuring out exactly where I could position myself so that Kiersten would have zero idea I was there. Sandy Hook is wide open — no convenient bushes to hide behind, no crowd to blend into. Just beach.
But I found my angle. Settled in. And waited.
When Max and Kiersten finally walked onto the beach, she walked right past me. Didn’t even glance over. I felt like an absolute spy and I’m not even a little sorry about it.
The Moment
They made their way toward the water. I had my camera up.
Max grabbed a rock.
That was it. He turned, got down on one knee, and I just… let the moment breathe and did my job.
There’s something about a surprise proposal that hits differently every single time. The way Kiersten’s whole body reacted when she realized what was happening — the hands going to her face, the disbelief, the joy — that’s the stuff I live for. The late April light was soft, the water was calm, and everything just clicked into place the way it does when a moment is meant to happen.
She said yes. He swept her off her feet — literally. And I caught all of it.
Captured on video
What I Took Away From This One
I don’t always get to be part of the perfectly planned, six-months-in-the-making proposal sessions. Sometimes life throws a curveball and you get six days, a scrambled plan, and a whole lot of heart.
This one reminded me why I do what I do.
Max trusted me with one of the most important moments of his life on very short notice, and I got to show up and actually be there for it — not just technically, but fully present, ready, and honored to be part of their story. That’s not something I take lightly, ever.
If you’re planning a proposal — whether you’ve had it mapped out for months or you’re sending me a DM six days out — I want to help you pull it off. Your story matters, and it deserves to be captured beautifully.
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